Bullies are victims?
Cherie White, over at Chateau Cherie listed 15 Crappy Advice Often Given to Targets of Bullying and I can’t help but smile because I’m not sure if I should laugh or cry for not hearing any of it from friends and family.
“Lucky me” because I never heard any of those 15 advices.
Probably, it was because the bullies never stay long enough for me to say I was bullied. I’m one of the smallest girls in my schools (yep plural), so often at school start, I become bullies target, but I’m such a hothead that often the bullies get hurt because of me. It usually ends with me getting reprimanded by teachers and sometimes beaten by my parents for “bullying” my bullies, while the bully played the victim… ah the irony.
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33 Comments
cheriewhite
Thank you so much for sharing, Jessica. And I’m so proud of you for standing your ground. In doing so, you exposed your bullies as the cowards they were! Way to go! ✊🙂
Jessica E. Larsen
Thanks Cherie! ❤️ Your post are full of inspiration, it’s a shame not spread them.🤗
cheriewhite
❤❤❤
Nour R.
Okay what???????? Bullies are insecure, true. But that does NOT excuse their actions. A girl told my friend maybe 3 years ago? that she will never be befriended because she isn’t likable and she thought about it every single day since then. And that’s just one situation out of tons that I’ve seen and heard and even experienced, Totall pisses me off!
Jessica E. Larsen
??? what??? 🤨 Bullying no matter what is wrong. The girl in your story handled her bullies differently from me, and I wonder how many bullied girls in the world who get reprimanded by their own parents.
popsiclesociety
Ah the irony…🤪 I guess when I was in school I even did not know what bullying means…I think that now somehow is way too much exaggerated…
Jessica E. Larsen
They do happen at least in my schools. There was even a girl in my elementary school who committed suicide because of it. The reason? Jealousy. The other girls were jealous that she’s very lady-like and beautiful despite being 11 years old. I got bullied just because I was small. They’d rip my notebook, break my pencil, one time I even slice a finger because someone put a blade in the pocket of my bag, but then again, I always bite back one or another. Revenge! 😈
popsiclesociety
That’s crazy! Then I can consider myself lucky that I’ve never experienced such things in school or anywhere else…to commit suicide just because she was prettier that’s completely crazy 🙀🤦🏼♀️
I wish people could be more selfish from this point of view!
Of course, you knew how to defend yourself 😉🌸
Jessica E. Larsen
Well, everything they do was nothing compared to what my parents put me through. Even when I was fighting with boys, their punches was nothing compare to my father’s… ah ok, I’m slipping into the darkness haha 😀 anyway, I’m glad it’s over.
popsiclesociety
😢😫 that’s a really dark part 😡😢
Jessica E. Larsen
Thanks for the sympathy Ribby. ❤️ But I’m far away now and older, their punches can never reach me anymore. 🙂
popsiclesociety
That’s true! You’re a very strong person! 🤗💕🤩
Jessica E. Larsen
💘 again thanks 🙂 🤗
Dracul Van Helsing
Ironic indeed.
Jessica E. Larsen
😄
Jim Borden
sometimes you got to stand up for yourself!
Jessica E. Larsen
True. It’s just horrible that when you do your own parents are against you.
Jim Borden
that’s got to be tough…
Jessica E. Larsen
It was. But they’ve put me through worse things making this laughable haha 😀
Jim Borden
I’m guessing it made you more resilient…
Jessica E. Larsen
True… 😁
Simon
Who can play with strong Jessica 😎 nobody messes with Jessica E Larsen 💪 you are an inspiration ✨ not all girls are strong like you were, hoping all girls should be strong like were and bully the bullies. Have a lovely night day 😁
Jessica E. Larsen
Thanks Simon, believe me I was far from strong. I just refused to be pushed around. I often come home with bruises and black eyes. It was not fun at all haha 😀
Have wonderful day 💖
Simon
🤔black eyes and bruises, wait, let me imagine that for a while 😳 no way, is that you. I am sure it was your bullies that walked home like that, in a war, bruises are common, i can sense you are strong 💪😉bruises can’t define your skill 😁🤗Have a lovely day you too 😊or is it night? 🤔 😉
Jessica E. Larsen
Oh, I’m sure I at least claw them a couple of times. It goes both ways haha 😀 not sure I’m the winner though haha 😂
It’s night now. 03:20AM 🙄
Simon
3:20 am 😳 u must be sleeping, did anyone told you, 1am to 3 am is the deep sleep one human can get and the whole body gets recover from any illness 🤔 u should try that 😉 and no matter who wins 😂 war is a war 😁..
Jessica E. Larsen
I go into deep sleep around 6AM when the sun rise 😛 😂
Simon
I was talking about 🤔um, let’s not bring the body science 😂😂 u do ur schedule 😅😂
Jessica E. Larsen
😁 I’ve remain healthy so I guess, my body has its own science 😉 😁
Simon
Ofcourse it has 😅 And be healthy and I know you will 🤗
Poorwa Vishwakarma
Fun post! Luckily none of my friends get bullied, we all stay together so happily. And no one in my school can even think to bullying me. They all are so sweet.
Jessica E. Larsen
Thank you 🙂
Bullies often don’t need so much reason to bully someone. I was bullied because I was small.
I’m glad to know that non of you experience it. 🥰
Poorwa Vishwakarma
I’m happy that you fought and didn’t scare 😊